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Fantasy Escort Guide
The Beginners Guide to Escort Etiquette

by Sentinel

There are many lovely Escorts /Companions all over the Fantasy Escort Guide who would be more than happy to help you if you follow basic ground rules. There is most definitely a right way and a wrong way to contact an Escort. You can be guaranteed not to hear back from the lady if you are rude and/or crude. If you follow this primer below, chances are you will have an enjoyable experience.

Are you ready?

The very first step you must take is Research.

Homework

Always do your homework, 30 minutes of online research not only will save you save hundreds on car insurance but minimizes the chance of a bad experience, humiliation and “taking one for the team”. If you choose NOT to do your homework you will have no one to blame but yourself in you have a bad experience.

A good place to start is the Bulletin Boards. You can request information about a provider, agency or both. The proper form for that request in many places is subjects line like this:

REQ: Reviews on ( provider name or Agency)

INFO REQ: on ( provider name or Agency)

The above will work on most boards but check out the boards rules or user guide they may have their own format.

Lots of ladies have web site banner ads on the information boards. Get started by clicking on these ads and looking at the web sites. You can learn a great deal of information here as the sites contain lots of information including Escort terms. Some of the savvier providers have links to etiquette or beginner guides much like this one. Take the time to read them not just look at her photos and rates.

Next, return to the boards and do a name search on the lady for the last six months. Read her posts and you should be able to get a read on her personality. At this point you may have a list of a few providers that appeal to you. Take this list and go to FER Fantasy Escort Reviews.com to see if they have any published reviews for the last few months.

Initial Contact

This is the first hurdle to clear without falling flat on your face.

If the site has an appointment request form, fill it out, providing the requested information. This is where many make their first mistake by not following instructions. If you don't like a providers contact terms then move on.

Otherwise, follow them.

If her form has a comment section whatever you say do not make any rude or sexually suggestive comments. To do so will insure you never here from the lady at all if she is a professional.

So what if she doesn't have a request form?

Well then it is time for that first email. First off, keep it simple. In the Subject Line, a subject like: "Hi from John" or “Appointment request from Dayton” will get your email read. Do NOT use subjects like, "I need it bad","Do me !" In many cases it is an automatic delete button press.

In your e-mail keep it simple but professional.

Hello:
I'm John from Monkey's Elbow, Kentucky. I visited your site and I'd like to make an appointment to see you. I will be in your town from XX date to XX date.

I was wondering you might have time available during my visit?

Give her your contact and best time to call.

Two special notes of merit here:

• Spelling and punctuation count.
• Some ladies will not see local guys no matter what.

This is a choice they have made for whatever reason. If you get a return email saying I don't see locals, respect the decision and move on to your next choice. Most ladies are very good about returning respectable emails. You should generally get a respond in 48 hours or less. Some have auto-response systems set up and the first email back may be that. Some of these ladies are very busy. Another delay in a reply maybe the lady is traveling, on vacation or on an extended appointment. Just because she doesn't reply right away, doesn't mean bad news. If you have no response after 3 days, you may try one more as sometimes they do get deleted by mistake or get eaten by Internet gremlins.

Verification

Your Companion has answered your initial email or called you. Now comes the verification phase. If you've never seen a Companion and have no provider references, then she is going ask for information that will prove you are not some rogue government agency trying to entrap her.

Therefore the Companion is going to ask for what seems like personal information, work phone, company name, possibly who have you seen or who you know. Don't fight it. She's merely trying to protect herself and her clients (perhaps soon to be you) from potential problems. Keep in mind she wants to make the appointment too and has a vested interest in "discretion". Some providers ask for little information, some ask for more. If you refuse to provide her with the information you can forget about an appointment with the lady. The Verification is a safety process you normally can't negotiate away.

There are Companions who will prefer to call rather than answer email if you left a contact number and a ‘safe' time to call. Once this dialogue has been opened now is the time to find out more information about the lady.

Does she have a favorite meal, favorite flower or favorite wine? What kind of music does she like? What is her favorite thing to do? What does she dislike? Now this is assuming, this information is NOT on her web site.

If it is, there is no greater way to look like a fool by asking questions, which she has painstakingly answered previously on her site.

If this is your first time tell her. Tell her your favorites, likes and dislikes. But for gods sake don't give her your whole life story or how Amy Lou broke your heart in the 7 th grade. If you are nervous be a MAN and tell her also. Most ladies are fantastic at putting you at ease, provided you have told them. This is not the time to be shy or tough it out!! Finalize the date, time, place and length of your meeting.

Meetings

Some Companions will only meet you in a public place the firsttime while others will come right to your room. Even still there are a few who prefer a quick 15 or 20 minutes for get to know you drink the day before.

If her site doesn't cover it, politely ask "What are your first meeting policies".

This information is what you need to learn, during your communications leading up to your meeting. An important warning here is the lady may have given you her cellular or other contact number. Now is NOT the time to become NEEDY a phone stalker. Some ladies are very talkative and will call you more than a few times. Others may only call once or twice. Follow her lead and respect her wishes here.

But what if a man answers?

There will be cases where you call (Make sure your phone# is NOT blocked) the number on the web site an a man answers.

Don't Panic!

Calmly and politely say a greeting "hello", "good afternoon" followed by, did I dial 555-1212 or whatever the published number is on the web site. Often you HAVE dialed the right number and yes her bookings are done by a man. No problem!

Conduct yourself like you would in any other professional situation. They have a service you want and you are calling to contract those services. Just remember the same discretion rules of what you can and can not say STILL apply. Asking "so buddy, how much for a BJ" or "have you dated her yourself" is a guaranteed hang up. It also screams "Hi I'm a dumb ass with no class."

The Big Day

Nothing can be stressed more here than be Clean.

Wait…. one more time:

Nothing can be stressed more here than be Clean.

Be freshly showered, brush your teeth, comb your hair, and be dressed !!

Answering the door in your purple silk boxers works fine for scaring away Jehovah Witnesses but it is bad for a first meeting. The only pleasure you will have is the probability of watching her walk away; especially if this is your first time.

Be drug free and have nothing in the room if you partake in that sort of thing.

Falling down drunk is also a bad idea. Companions of a certain caliber will walk immediately if you fall into either two of these categories.

There she is, standing in the doorway, offer her your hand invite her in and offer her a seat. Ask if she wants something to drink. If you are really savvy, a fresh vase of her favorite flowers is a great touch and invite her to take them when she leaves. Expect to sit and chat for a little bit to break the ice. Have a glass of, juice, soda or wine. However, don't be put off is she refuses alcoholic beverages nor push the issue. Smile, respect it and have something else just in case.

Depending on the area of the country you are in you maybe asked to show her your driver's license. Show for thought and have it out along with her fee in clear view on the coffee table or stand. Whatever you do, don't ask so what am I getting for this?

That's what your research was for and any smart Companion will turn around and walk. Be a considerate client by having the fee in a white envelope in plain sight is best. Some will excuse themselves and go to the bathroom to check all is in order. There are some places the Companion will see the envelope but say nothing or even touch it till the end of the meeting.

After the small chit chat, the Companion may or may not excuse her self to the bathroom while telling you to "get comfortable".

This is your sign to "get undressed". Remember her boundaries and that No means No. If you're still nervous most ladies will sense this and lead through the meeting. Remember attitude is key. If you are polite, act like a gentleman and treat the lady with respect and dignity, you are pretty much going to have a good time.

Expect Condoms to be used.

DONT EVEN ASK NOT TO!

If the lady offers a BBBJ, only you can decide if you can accept the risk. Some ladies will, some ladies won't. If you can't accept the risk, ask her to use a condom. Some ladies will kiss, some won't. All of these things should be no surprise to you if you have done your homework. Expect some more small talk at the end. If you are the type who writes reviews ask her if you may write one, if you don't write reviews then just don't offer. Some ladies will ask you to write a review. If you're not comfortable writing one just let her know. Don't promise one and fail to follow up. Other ladies will not want a review no matter what. Respect her wishes here.

Some Companions require no tipping, however it is ALWAYS a good idea, especially if she has gone extra mile. Let's be honest, he who tips best, get the best service in the long run. The Companions always appreciate them.

Follow Up

Some clients send a short email within a couple of days thanking the companion or agency owner for the time spent. This is the polite thing to do and it keeps the door open for future meetings. When dealing with an agency it's not unheard of to call and let them know you were pleased. After all every legitimate business owner wants constructive feed back.

The follow up doesn't mean send an email everyday or a phone call either. Just a short Thank you till the next time will do. The Bottom line is to treat the Companion like a lady, with dignity and the way you expect to be treated. Act with kindness, manners and respect and the respect will be returned by the Companion. If you have taken the time to research and find a Companion who fits your needs, there is no reason you should not have an enjoyable experience.